Monday, August 16, 2010

How to comfort my twin sister?

So we are 18, and my sister just went through this horrible break up with her boyfriend that she had been dating for about 2 years. She is totally devastated, and I can't stand seeing her like this. The sight of her crying makes me want to go beat the guy up. Anyway, what should I do to comfort her?? We are super close, but I just don't know how to go about helping her feel better.





ThanksHow to comfort my twin sister?
You could tell your sister you're sorry she's going through a rough time right now. and you could also mention that you'll listen if she needs to talk.





I'd give her a few days or week, and then i'd also try to include her when i'm going to do something... or just ask her if she wants to watch a movie, or bake cookies or whatever it is you like to do... she might feel better if she is made to feel wanted.





take care.How to comfort my twin sister?
Grieving is a natural process. Your sister is going through this phase due to loss of relationship. Perhaps, you should give your sister little time to clear her emotions. She will come out of this anyway.





Nevertheless, you can help her by offering her to take out to her favorite leisure time activities, take her to cinema, shopping, sightseeing etc or anything that makes her to enjoy her time.





Good Luck
Well, tell her that she is 18 and she was not married to the guy, and she has no kids either. It was good that it happened now and not later, she will meet a better guy, and she has this experience, she didn't waste her time after all. If the guy was not good for her, she must thank God for that. If they are not together is because it wasn't meant to be.





I understand that she can't be feeling too good now, but it will pass. Try to take her mind out of that guy. You should forget about that guy too, and try to motivate your sister to do new things and have fun together.





In a short time you will see that life is beautiful and that that guy is not going to ruin it for you.





Good luck!
find her another boyfriend to go out with
she probably wants to be left alone. it's normal to be like that after a breakup. she'll be fine





oh and you're welcome (:
Just say this: ';I know you are going through a tough time. I'm not sure how to help you, but I want you to know that I love you very much and I hope you will tell me, when you are ready, what I can do to help you.';


This will let her know that you care and, when she is ready to talk, she will let you know.


You might even want to write this in a card and leave it where she is sure to find it.


If she tells you that she doesn't know what she needs, you can tell her that just getting out of the house and doing something will at least help keep her mind off of the situation, and ask her where she would like to go with you.


You're very sweet to want to help her. I wish you both much happiness.
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