Wednesday, August 18, 2010

How long should one wait before having sex with their boyfriend/girlfriend?

I know obviously when the two people are ready but I don't mean it like that. How long should two people wait before having sex so that people woun't say you went to fast or call the girl a hoe. Me and my boyfriend haven't been dating that long, and we haven't even talked about sex I'm just curious. Because my friend told me that if we did have sex to early people might call me a hoe and easy. So how early is too early? I mean like how long should we wait?How long should one wait before having sex with their boyfriend/girlfriend?
It doesn't really matter how other people see you, does it? Immature catty girls are going to call you names because they're jealous... no matter how long you wait. However, I personally think it's rather promiscuous to have sex less than 6 months or so after meeting a guy. Maybe I'm old fashioned though. But I like to get to know the guy before sex gets in the way.How long should one wait before having sex with their boyfriend/girlfriend?
Just wait until the time feels right. There is no specific time for a couple. Once your comfortable enough to talk about sex then thats a start. And after talking about it then discuss when would be the right time. For me, it just depends on the guy and how good he is to me. Usually a few months. Just depends
That is a standard that is different for each person.





I knew my current fiance for over six months before we even fooled around.





However, I know several successful couples who slept together within the first month, and even a few with the first week.





Then again, I also know a couple who will celebrate their two year wedding anniversary in September - who didn't sleep together until their wedding night (~2 years dating ~10 months engagement)
well...........usually one would base the sex on how many dates they've had...............i would definetly avoid having intercourse for the first week.........because then they will think ill of you...........and advise to get to know the boy longer and really be sure whether he's the special one...............because there's nothing worse then making that mistke.............if he's into u and not into the sex he'll be happy to wait and become better friends...............








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I've heard of the ';6 month rule'; but i think it's stupid to plan it. Just make sure you've been together a considerable time so you know alot about each other and are comfortable around each other. Also, trust is a big deal so ask yourself if you can trust him then if you feel you are ready you should do it we all make our own mistakes etc.
hes your boyfriend so if you have sex with him, its your business- not other girls. so if they call you a hoe, that's dumb. wouldn't they rather you have sex with your own boyfriend instead of theirs??


just do it when y'all are ready. don't let other peoples opinions stop you.
I don't mean to sound rude but who cares what others think. If they think your a hoe then there losers. but i guess i understand your question. Don't think about them , think about you and him. Do you feel ready? if so go for it. but make sure it is okay with him.^^
it dnt reallyy matter


what other ppl think.





but i think that yall


should do it when yall


aree readyy no matter


how earlyy or late


in the relationship it


is.





i dnt think it should


be planned tho.


it will happen when it happens.
Well... My Advice Would To Be... If You've Been Together 5 Months+ Than Maybe Talk About It... See If Your Both Comfortable About It... If You've Been Together Less Than that Then Maybe You Should Wait For A Bit... Don't Rush Into Things :)
7 -8 months bare minimum. a year will have you off the hook whatsoever. trust me, i made the mistake of not waiting. plus it's better after you wait for a long time. always use protection!
You should really wait til you trust and love him. Before diving into the sheets, ask him about his sexual history. You don't want STDs now do you.
Just wait until you feel that special moment, you'll know its the right time.


Don't do it because your horny!!!


You'll know that feeling when it's time!
DO ITTTTT!











Nah im joking id say till you both trust one another and have immense feelings for one another, you just know when the time is right tbh.
It's not about the amount of time. It's about how deeply in love with them you are, and about how mature you are.
Wait til you are married then if he waits he really likes you.
Slap that ho as soon as possible
i would say like 6 months but thats just me
Until you trust them.
why does it matter what others think and how would they know anyway
when u are ready..dnt listen to what ppl say!!!!!!
1 HOUR
why wait at all?

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