Friday, August 20, 2010

How to fix my relationship?

Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and a month now. weve been unseperatable sense we first got together. things have been great. but for the last few months we have been really fighting and not trusting each other.Tons of girls THROW themselves at him and i cant trust that. and he doesnt trust me from my cheating in a past relationship. Stupid things start the fights but were both soo stubborn that we dont want to break down and apologize or just let it go..


i really dont want this relationship to end but its feeling like its going to fail or not get better. and thats the last thing i want.. from what ive heard from him. he doesnt want that ether.


i dont know what to do to improve this and get it back to the way it was back when we first met. i dont want to call it quits or do i need too and just face it and work on moving on or is there a chance at saving this relationship.How to fix my relationship?
You guys really need to talk about this %26amp; you need to say sorry if you think its worth it :DHow to fix my relationship?
take a break
ok it's all about the conversation without yelling or accussing one another.. Sit have a beer , class of wine somewhere with your'all friends and just talk.. The number one rule in a relationship is TRUST and communication... Tell him to stop bringing up the past relationships you've had and assure him you do not want to cheat or have never cheated on him.. compliment him on things he's done... just talk... if that doesn't work write a letter to him, yes a letter and mail it to him or at his work,,, about how you fell all the ups and downs and what you expect in a relationship... Men like those kind of things... let each other have there own space, you both have to want it to work or else it won't if someone gives up or distrusts its over.... cut your loss and move on. Find someone who loves you for you,, make them woo court you,, don't sleep or move in with them until at least 6-12months of dating,, make sure it's real not just for sex..talk and grow with each other... good luck

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