How to break up with your boyfriend gently.?

Please, im asking for serious advice.





My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over 3 weeks. we both liked each other way before that, we just didn't know it. the thing is, month or so we started dating he stopped talking to me, like turning the other way, avoiding my texts stopped. at the end of the month i realized he no longer cared about me, and so i left him alone. the next week he comes to me saying he stopped talking to me because he loved me. the thing is he was with another girl the entire time, it didn't make any sense. he said he didn't want to hurt me and blah blah blah. at that point i hated him. i loved him and he left, and he comes back expecting me to forgive him. i had lost interest by then and when he asked me out i said yes just to see if things would turn out better once we were officially together. the first week was amazing. but by the second, i had my doubts. now im completely over him and i want our relationship to end. hes hurt me too much in the past, and im done. i want to do it gently though because i still want him to be my friend, he always says he loves and cares and hes sorry for what hes done. but i just cant take it anymore. someone please help. how can i do this without it being painful for the both of us?How to break up with your boyfriend gently.?
Sorry i lost interest for you. Lets be friends.


(i hope this helps)How to break up with your boyfriend gently.?
the way he has been behaving towards you


don't worry about being gentle break up with him while the relationship is still in it's early stages


it will be much easier for you now than later
there is no way that it is not going to be painful for u too. u already started off on really bad terms. u should just nip it in the bud n tell him straight how it is and if he cnt respect u 4 that then he is not a good enough ';friend';to have. cuz eventually ur just going to repeat this endless cycle so prob the best 4 u is not be friends or at least not so close. depends on how firm u r about not wanting to date him. u may just need a clean break.
do him first and then tell him that it's over. then hes still mentally attached to you but the relationship is technically over.
I wonder why you are still worried about his feelings after what he's done? If you're unsure about whether someone is treating you right just ask yourself if you would treat someone you care about in the same way.





Maybe you could just stop talking to him and completely ignore him from now. I've had a decent experience of break ups from both ends.





But if you really have to be nice about it. Just say something about you both being good people but perhaps you aren't good together. You'd like to end it and tell him not to change.





I found that last bit was nice on the receiving end. So I use it now.





Well good luck, it's never easy.