All the guys that have ever spoke to me only wanted sex and to hook up. Most college guys only want sex.
Soooo how are you supposed to get a boyfriend in college if most college guys only want sex?How are you supposed to get a boyfriend in college if most college guys only want sex?
Don't worry about the boyfriend part yet. Wait and get to know someone before jumping into a relationship with them. Then you know their goals and what they are after. Its likely that you will find a great and happy relationship if you really take the time and become friends with someone before dating them. I dont just mean a couple of weeks either. Months is good. If you really want a lasting relationship you need to know them first. CommunicateHow are you supposed to get a boyfriend in college if most college guys only want sex?
Ironically that's been my experience with alot of girls in college as well. But trust me, there are guys who are interested in having a relationship and the sex is just something that happens later, if at all. I do count myself amongst one of them, and I know that I can't be the only one. The problem is that MOST guys in college are going to just want to hook up, and care very little about having a relationship. Honestly, the best advice that I can suggest is simply be very very choosy with who you go out with. Don't give in to them, and if they press you for sexual favors, drop them like a rock, then start looking again.
Okok dont feel bad im 18 and ive only had 1 boyfriend who broke up with me because I wouldnt have sex. When I finally agreed we got back together we had sex and he broke up with me 5 minutes after. But I just started college this year and I meet a guy. We were in the same group in english and we liked the same band. He;s really sweet and he isnt pressuring me for sex. I am also shy. He started to talk to me! Don't worry hun you will get a boyfriend but you may have to reach out alittle more and talk to people. Give it a try! I hope I helped.
P.s. to the person who called you a moron having a boyfriend isnt just about sex.
you hold out and only have sex when you are ready. Men can separate sex and emotions. If they are just after sex and you give them that, the will not only still have no feelings for you, they will also not respect you and write you off as a booty call... forever. I know what its like to be so in need of compassion and affection and love that it physically hurts. Its hard, but hold out untill you find the right guy... the one who actually wants to get to know you, the one who will put forth some effort to get close to you and to know you.
Find the minority of guys that actually want a proper relationship. Try looking for new guys in different places such as the library, coffee shop or other college hangouts. Don't give up hope because there will be guys that do actually want a relationship and not just a quick hookup.
not all guys do... in the beginning. just find one that is really passionate about something already like a sport or academics. they will be too busy to deal will sex and this will help you two become less clingy (clingy couples never make it past a year cuz they get sick of each other :D)
most guys in college just wanna have fun. they don't want anything serious with strings attached. your young so have fun and let the boyfriend come to you. stressing yourself about a boyfriend or being desperate for one with make you miserable. get your education and have fun doing it!
hmmm this is a tough one. oh, i just had a great idea!!!! you could not have sex with the people you're seeing, and if they dump you, they only wanted sex, and if they dont dump you, they actually like you! that took alot of thought
there are no bf/gf stuff in college only people u hang with and the people u screw....if u do it right im sure u can get a bf...make sure not to catch anything...
find someone who loves you for who you are try not going for it till marriage that helps or just focus on finding the person
i want the answer to this too. !
i know alot of guys suck this generation.
Wait until you leave college, you will find someone in time; if the fire is hot- don't keep sticking yr finger in it!!
Date boys from grade school. Or a nerd.
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