How do i make my ex boyfriend understand that i've changed?

he says i feel more like a sister to him. how do i change that? and how do i get that special connection he doesnt feel anymore? AND how do i be more sexual with him?How do i make my ex boyfriend understand that i've changed?
move on, find someone elseHow do i make my ex boyfriend understand that i've changed?
SOMETIMES WE HAVE TO LET THE PAST STAY IN THE PAST. HE HAS. SO MOVE ON
Well it sounds like, yall could possibly be good friends rather than bf/gf...or at least he feels or wants it that way. Unfortunitley you cant make him understand that you dont want it that way, because apparently he feels its wrong to be together. Sometimes friends are better, maybe friends with benifts (if ur that type). It's not always bad, trust me. I started dating my highschool sweetheart in 11th grade, after we graduated we moved in together, a year later we had a kid, a month after that we broke up, and continued to get together and break up for about a 2 years. Finally i just got tired of it, and once we realized we connected and conversated better being friends than mates it was wonderful. Now he's a peice of crap dad, but a friend.
You can't make someone love you or make anyone want to be with you. All you can do is be friends with him right now and maybe one day in the future things will change. But for now be lucky you still have him in your life. I know it's hard, but trust me if he doesn't see what you have there will be someone that will see it, and you will look back on this and wonder what you were even asking the question for.

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How do i tell my parents?

I'm 15 and my parents are spliting up :( its been hard but my boyfriends been there for me.. i've been feeling strange and my periods are almost a week late? which is really weird because they are usually on time everytime. If i am pregnant i dont know how to ask my mum for help or even tell her? i dont know what to do ?How do i tell my parents?
oh honey, dont panic


have you done a test yet? because if you haven't then how are you sure, you're pregnant.


it couldd just be a normal late period. And if you are certain you are then it is best to tell the more calm parent first and if you can, bring your boyfriend with you.


:)


God bless..xHow do i tell my parents?
First you need to sit down with just your mom and tell her you really need to talk to her about something that is extremely important. Be honest with her and hopefully she will be supportive.Start off by saying I know you may think I'm too young for sex but I want to let you know that I am sexually active and there is a chance I may be pregnant and I need your help.


Good luck
Hi...


First of all don't panic or stress as this can delay your period...


The only way you are going to find out is if you come on your period or you do a test...


I suggest you get a test...


If your in the Uk brooke advisory clinic can help you with that, its all completely confidential..and from what I can gather I think US has something similar called planned parenthood?


Anyways..You need to do that first off...


Then if you are pregnant you need to sit down with your mum and try talk the situation through,


it wont easy for either of you, especially if your parents are going through a break up...


What do you mean by feeling really strange?


I fell pregnant at 17 and now have a little boy who is nearly 4...


I told my mum straight away and she was quite supportive, but my dad on the other hand was screaming at me to get an abortion...


You need to do what you think is right, don't let anyone push you into anything...


Good luck hun...


Keep us posted


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Before you make things worse for your parents, take a test, if it says positive,(it may be wrong) go to a clinic, and if it's still positive.





Tell, just say you're pregnant, I'm not going to sugar coat it like everyone else.





Because it's your responsiblity to be safe when you're having sex.
She's your mum, only you know what will be the best way to tell her.





Your choice, not ours. This is something you have to figure out for yourself.





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This will walk you through getting an abortion through NHS





The law in England, Wales and Scotland says that you can have an abortion in the first 24 weeks of pregnancy as long as certain rules are met. You will be able to get an abortion on the NHS if you get the agreement of two doctors. They must be certain that the abortion meets the rules. Usually the first doctor is your GP and the second is a doctor working at the hospital or clinic where the abortion takes place. Legal abortions are available to women in Northern Ireland only in very limited circumstances.


You can get general advice and information about getting an abortion from your GP or family planning clinics.


Help is also available from voluntary organisations, for example, the British Pregnancy Advisory Service (BPAS), which runs its own clinics in England, Wales and Scotland (www.bpas.org.uk). Some abortions at a BPAS clinic are paid for by the NHS. This depends on where you live. You can get more information on the BPAS website at: www.bpas.org.uk. The website has information in a range of community languages, including Spanish, Polish and Punjabi.


If you cannot get the abortion on the NHS, you'll have to pay privately. The price depends on how many weeks pregnant you are and which method is used to carry out the abortion.


British Pregnancy Advisory Service (BPAS), which runs its own clinics in England, Wales and Scotland www.bpas.org.uk


NHS Direct website in England at www.nhsdirect.nhs.uk.


In Wales, visit the NHS Direct website at www.nhsdirect.wales.nhs.uk.


In Scotland, go to www.nhs24.com.


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Good luck whatever you choose to do.








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just talk to your mom and tell her that there is a possibility you might be pregnant...also take a home pregnancy test to check and see if youre pregnant...you have to talk to your mom for she can understand that you are going to need help throughout the pregnancy...she might be mad at first but later on she will get over it and will help you and the baby out...i hope everything works our for you...
awwwww....be strong


periods can be late due to stress


and if you wanna check if your are pregnant or not and don't wanna tell you mom...get a pregnancy test kit and check without telling her.
You need to just be honest with your parents. Trying to lie to them and hide it is only going to make you look childish. Be as mature about the situation as possible, that way if it turns out your going to be a mother you can be at least one step in the right direction. Yes it's going to be tough and I've been in your shoes when I was 15. I was so scared to tell my mother but I did and she was upset but was very glad I told her.
Make sure you are really pregnant before you bring it up and then just tell them like you tell them anything else in your life. Stand your ground if you want to keep, put up for adoption, or otherwise. They may have an idea that they have some say in the situation which they do, but it is your choice. Make sure you know what you want to do. Don't have the boyfriend with you because I know that if my daughter came to me and told me she was pregnant with the guy standing next to her I would be about murdering him.
If you tell the truth, it becomes part of your past.


If you tell a lie, it becomes part of your future.
No you're not pregnant


When you're pregnant your period stops all together


Don't worry and good luck with your parents!
maybe having a grandkid will bring them back together

Help I think I am pregnant how should I tell my boyfriend?

But the thing is that im not sure if he is the father or not but I have narrowed it down to a couple of guys but I still have to tell my parents? Should I tell all the guys who could possibly be the father?Help I think I am pregnant how should I tell my boyfriend?
Go to the Maury show and test 10 guys, then run off the stage when Maury says ';You are NOT the father!';Help I think I am pregnant how should I tell my boyfriend?
Tell everyone, they will find out sooner or later anyway, and maybe sticking to one partner or using some kind of contraception might be a good idea hmmm...
okay first make sure you are pregnant. Wait till you go to the dr. and make sure! Tell your parents frst and its prob going to be embarasing but tell them your not sure who the father is...Maybe you should break up with your bf and tell him you are preg but he might not be the dad bc you cheated on him with several other guys...i dnt understand how you cant know who your babys daddy is thats sad!
TRAMP, God help your child if you are pregnant....
Who did you have sex with 14 days before your expected period? Take a pregnancy test when your period is due and then if you are pregnant then u can tell someone.This is not something you want to tell anyone.
idk but im sure jerry springer can find that **** out lol
u need to be honest with him if u decide to tell him. tell him it may or may not be his. give him the choice of a paternity test. if it is not him, take all of the other guys in for a paternity test as well. if u are pregnant, the child needs to know who the father is. at least give him/her that right.
Why don't you calm down and find out for sure if you're pregnant first. From there tell your parents and go see a doctor. They can narrow down the conception days for you. Unfortunately if you were sleeping around with these guys all around the same time that won't help you.

When i am with my boyfriend i get discharge. how come?

i love (or really really like if you must) him. and when ever i am with my boyfriend and if he would hug or kiss me, i get this clear, vaginal discharge. it tends to be goo-ey. i wouldn't get it all at once it would like gradually add up. its similar to the discharge i get right after my period.


i am a virgin and 16.When i am with my boyfriend i get discharge. how come?
it happens when you get an orgasm.When i am with my boyfriend i get discharge. how come?
This is really normal. I too am a Virgin and the same happens to me when i'm with my boyfriend. It's only your body reacting to it's want for sexual relations. When people refer to a girl being ';wet';, this is what they are meaning. It isn't anything bad at all. You're just turned on by the guy and your body is readying itself for anything that you might do with him. Such as sexual intercourse.





So, don't worry. It's normal and you have nothing to worry about :)
When you are sexually aroused your vagina becomes lubricated to prepare for sex.


When your bf kisses or hugs you, you are sexually aroused.





It is not an orgasm. You become lubricated in preparation for sex. It doesn't matter if you aren't actually having sex. Your body doesn't know that, it just wants to be prepared.
Its called an orgasm, and it occurs when you get sexually excited.
What you are experiencing is your vaginal lubrication. You are all horny and wound up, and your body is preparing to have intercourse.
Kissing is part of foreplay, and your body is telling you that you are excited. It is nothing to be worried about. your body is responding well. if this kissing and hugging lead to sex then this discharge will help you to get him in easily.





If you don't like the way it feels or you want to protect your undies, try wearing a pantyliner when you are with your boyfriend. The pantyliner will absorb the vaginal discharge and help you feel fresh and dry.





hope that i answer your question
He is making you excited and that is your natural lubricant

Why am i so scared to be intimate with him?

being intimate with my boyfriend always feels great. i love being close to him and being intimate with him but i always feel scared at first. like i get really nervous but once we're on the bed everything just feels right. he is worried that he's pressuring me and that its not something i want to do because of how i react. i really do enjoy being with him i just get so nervous. why do i feel this way and how do i get over out?Why am i so scared to be intimate with him?
I used to be like that ALL the time! For me, I was always just scared of what was going to happen. Not really scared, but worried he wouldn't like it, or like me. His reaction always made me nervous. And then I would get even more scared because I'd feel embarrassed about all the possible reactions he could have to me. Part of me, I think, was that I wasn't exactly as ready as I thought I was to get intimate. To get over it, I just relaxed some.. I just thought about how he IS with me and how much he loves me and how much he loves being intimate. I think you just get scared at first, 'cause you're fine after. It's like trying a new thing, you know? Scary, but once you do it, you love it and wanna do it again. But it's like trying the same thing feels like a new thing over and over again. You'll get over it. Just remember he loves you. You're just being a little shy. In a way, you should treasure those moments. I miss the way I used to feel, that fear and excitement. Don't get me wrong, I'm extremely happy lol. But yeah, just go with if it feels right to you. Keep remembering he loves you no matter what!Why am i so scared to be intimate with him?
Maybe your scared of what it will be like afterwords. Liking it is NOT the same and loving it. So if your not sure you love it you dont have to do it.

How can i make my boyfriend dump me?

i don't want to dump him because he gets hurt easily and i really like him but as a mate really. i always get mixed up when i talk to him and i just really liked it when we were mates...How can i make my boyfriend dump me?
sleep with random menHow can i make my boyfriend dump me?
tell him the truth
Grow a spine and just break up with him.


Don't be so manipulative - do your own dirty work.
tell him u had a one night stand n u was drunk?
gross him out,get on his nerves,be really in his buisness.
look unattractive to him and don't bathe for a while so you'll stink. perhaps act slutty around him too. you'll be dumped in no time.
I say dump him because he will get more hurt if you do things to make him break up with you. The truth is always the best. Good luck
Cheat on him.
dissagree with him and dont talk to him as much as u used to. OR just dump him urself!
even if he gets hurt easily, you shouldnt string him along. talk to him and tell him you just wanna be friends. yes you risk him not wanting to be firends anymore but at least you will have done the right thing.
Thats probably not the best way to do it. If you really don't want to be with him the best answer would be honesty. It will just cause issues for you and him if you try to make him dump you. Unfortunately if you are dumping him to become ';mates'; again, this will -not- work. Unless this is a very rare person.





I would suggest not stabbing him in the eye with a fork also.
If you only liked him as a mate or a friend then how are you boyfriend and girlfriend. You probably gave him the wrong idea that you really liked him when you didn't. Now he's going to get his feelings hurt because you were dishonest with him.
its mean to act different and make him jealous, but it can lead him to dumping you. or you could pluck up the courage and dump him, because he's going to have to deal with break ups later on in life, he may feel the same way, which would then really help with your friendship. (: good luck (:
watch How to lose a guy in 10 days
easy, you break up with him
try and catch him out.


or let him down gently saying you don't feel the relationship i going anywhere
The thing is, you may want to make him break up with you, but that's not going to end well. First of all think about it, do you really want to break up with him or is it just a small dent in your relationship, or do you just want to break up with him. If you decide that you actually want to break up with him, break it to him easily, go somewhere in private and tell him you are really happy to be in a relationship with him but its a little award and you might just be better of being just friends. It might hurt both of you for a while but it will end well someday


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just tell him you would be better off as friends





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Tell him you are thinking of becoming a Nun and as such you will have to part...failing that tell him you are now into girls.

How should i do to get a boyfriend?

i am 19 years old girl. and until now i never have a boyfriend. people said that i am beautiful. but i don't know why there is no boy want me to be their girlfriend. i have ever think maybe because i am an aikidoka so they feel afraid with me...


what should i do to get a boyfriend? because sometimes i feel jealous with my friend who have so many boyfriendHow should i do to get a boyfriend?
Hello beautiful,


Be yourself, stop trying to impress and live for you, buy an out fit, wear it, the first guy you see that is cute, ask him to a movie. And girlie, you are charming and confident. Go get'em tiger!


Play eye of the tiger while getting ready with a friend!!! For laughs!How should i do to get a boyfriend?
I know i am ssoooo not much help. but i'm going to try anyway. I may be only 15, but i was in the same position as you for the last 15 years. I was always jealous of all the other girls in my grade because boys wanted them, and they got kisses and i didnt even know what kissing felt like. i wanted more than anything to have an amazing boyfriend and get amazing kisses just like everyone else. I'm shy. I'm a brown belt in Tae Kwon Do and im a tom boy type girl. Guys barely ever talked to me. they still dont talk much to me. I did fall for some insane player, partly because i was sick and tired of not being like other girls. DO NOT LET THIS HAPPEN TO YOU!! you will regret it. i didnt do anything really wrong with him, we did make out a bit. he left me for someone else, when he said he wanted to date me. we never did date. but after that i just waited it out. being patient works. it sooo hard not to be jealous, believe me. but It will happen when its your time, just like it happend to me. I now am having my first real relationship. I know that you are 19, but be paitent, talk to guys you see around. maybe they will like you back. you never know. anyway, good luck
be yourself





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omg im young but it seems noguy really likes me plz hlp ppl
Never compare yourself with your friends and their relationships, you will be much happier because of it. And you are ';maybe because i am an aikidoka so they feel afraid with me'; what? what is an aikidoka? Anyway just look cute, be nice, and remember that you are a girl eventually some guy will be attracted you (if not then go and find guys on your own).
become best friends with a guy you like.
there's nothing wrong with being single. it just means that your 'prince charming' hasn't shown up yet or its just not time yet. fate has its ways.





but if you want a boyfriend, try looking for a guy that you are physically and mentally attracted to. flirt with this guy and try smiling a lot when he's there. this will show him that you are interested in not only him,but a relationship as well. try being really flirty with him, but don't over do it!





also dont take things too fast or they will end up fast as well!





just be yourself and one day there will be a guy that will come to your life and magically change everything. :)
aikidoka? i googled that %26amp; it wa slike samurais ninja shyt O:


id love to be wit u
don't be jealous of them its more likely that women with many boyfriend's at a young age turn out to be terrible wife's divorced step children even whores in some cases and any women who are reading this that had a lot of boyfriend's no offense and i married the guy i first dated.
Act fun!
Well, you're still young, so you have plenty of time, plus its easier at that age to meet guys, school, danceclubs, parties, etc, etc. Just go out with friends, eventually you'll meet someone.
be more outgoing and confident =)
go get your groove on like stella
Hello fellow 19 year old, boyfriendless girl!


Im in the same situation, the guys that I want to go out with are always taken or see me only as a friend.


I get upset sometimes too because all of my friends have been in relationships.


But then, its actually fun to be single. I mean look at the positives: you can flirt with who ever you want, you wont have to worry about someone breaking your heart, or cheating on you.


Enjoy being single!


Im sure that you'll find someone when time comes.

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