I am crazy about my boyfriend, but concerned about his health. He is 40 pounds over weight and also on a very tight budget for groceries, so most of his diet is made up of top ramen and other unhealthy, processed yet inexpensive foods. He gets a fair amount of exercise in through sports, but his diet is in need of drastic change. I care about him a great deal and want to see him healthy, but am unsure how to approach the subject without him thinking I want him to diet for the wrong reasons. Any advice?How can I get my boyfriend to lose weight while on a tight budget?
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www.buildmuscleburnfat.co.ukHow can I get my boyfriend to lose weight while on a tight budget?
Tell him instead to watch The Biggest Losers on NBC TV
eating healthy dosnt have to be expensive...lean meats like chicken and fish...ground beef can be drained and rinsed in the sink to get rid of excess fat and then seasoned...then add veggies..and fruits
get some cheap protein like chicken breast or some fish. eat that alot hell lose weight. stay away from processed foods or foods that have added ingridients.
Ooh. Ramen is sooo good. But it really is bad for you. The sodium and calories in just one packet is shocking and freaks me out! Maybe you two could go running together? If you live in/near a suburban neighborhood with lots of hills and stuff, it's fun. My mom and dad go running a TON and they're between 45-50 years old. So it's not hard, and you don't even have to run the whole way. I think being together while exercising while being together motivates you. :) Tell him that the processed junk he eats can cause high blood pressure, clogged arteries, and other bad injuries when he's older and that you're worried about him. That's what I would do. Good luck!
if you wanna eat healthy on a tight budget it requires some COOKING. cheap and healthy doesnt get microwaved in 30 seconds.
there are TONS of cookbooks out there and even recipes online search ';healthy recipes for under 10$';
Green beans are a great low calorie food. That's probably the least expensive alternative.
Friday, August 20, 2010
How do I explain the situation to my exboyfriend? PLEASE HELP!?
So I got invited to my ex-boyfriend's roommate's birthday party. The only problem is they're going to a strip club for his birthday and I really don't want to go because I don't want to see my ex getting a lap dance or anything. I mean I'm over the relationship for the most part but they're some things you never want to see your ex do. This is one of them.. my ex is throwing the party so I have to RSVP to him. I just don't know what to tell him without him thinking I'm still heart broken or something. What should I say.. should I be really honest? I said I'd go earlier but now I think more about the more I think I'd be uncomfortable.How do I explain the situation to my exboyfriend? PLEASE HELP!?
just tell him umm hello im not one of your buddies. i dont wanna go to a strip club!How do I explain the situation to my exboyfriend? PLEASE HELP!?
He doesn't need to know why you don't want to go. Either say you're not interested in going to a strip club, or just tell him, sorry, I can't make it after all and leave it at that.
I think if you are over him you should go. You don't have to watch him getting a lap dance.
Do not go, this is not the place for you to be. Just tell him you will not be able to attend, no excuse needed!
if i was you i wouldn't rsvp at all and i wouldn't go either, one cause you need to respect yourself and not go to a strip club i have been it is not fun to me, like wtf im a female i got all she got why am i here, i always ended up there due to my guy friends well i just decided im not degrading myself to watch naked girls when i dont even respect what their doing...but any who also i mean i never liked being around my ex even if your half over him or all the way it is just uncomfortable and irritating and all i think is i dont want to be around him or here ..it wont kill anyone if you dont rsvp and it wont kill your friend you didn't go to the strip club..stay home watch movies go hang with your girls that night dont do something that you have doubts about doing if there is doubts there is a reason for that...save the drama and the possible hurt feelings and forget that party and your ex...hope i helped i wasn't trying to be rude i just have a lot of experience with this kind of junk.
just tell him umm hello im not one of your buddies. i dont wanna go to a strip club!How do I explain the situation to my exboyfriend? PLEASE HELP!?
He doesn't need to know why you don't want to go. Either say you're not interested in going to a strip club, or just tell him, sorry, I can't make it after all and leave it at that.
I think if you are over him you should go. You don't have to watch him getting a lap dance.
Do not go, this is not the place for you to be. Just tell him you will not be able to attend, no excuse needed!
if i was you i wouldn't rsvp at all and i wouldn't go either, one cause you need to respect yourself and not go to a strip club i have been it is not fun to me, like wtf im a female i got all she got why am i here, i always ended up there due to my guy friends well i just decided im not degrading myself to watch naked girls when i dont even respect what their doing...but any who also i mean i never liked being around my ex even if your half over him or all the way it is just uncomfortable and irritating and all i think is i dont want to be around him or here ..it wont kill anyone if you dont rsvp and it wont kill your friend you didn't go to the strip club..stay home watch movies go hang with your girls that night dont do something that you have doubts about doing if there is doubts there is a reason for that...save the drama and the possible hurt feelings and forget that party and your ex...hope i helped i wasn't trying to be rude i just have a lot of experience with this kind of junk.
I love my ex again but her boyfriend is blocking out our love for each other?
I have an ex, lets rename her Maggie. I love her a lot, and she already has a new boyfriend now and I dunno how to get her back even if they break up. On Facebook she says to text her, but I don't know if I should or not. She says were friends again, but I dunno how to ask her out if she's single again. How do I get her to like me back without annoying her?I love my ex again but her boyfriend is blocking out our love for each other?
.Keep up the friendship.Tell her to let you know if and when she's available.That way she'll be encouraging you to ask her outI love my ex again but her boyfriend is blocking out our love for each other?
Hello PeaceeNickk(:,
So, y0ur problem is:
';I have an ex, lets rename her Maggie. I love her a lot, and she already has a new boyfriend now and I dunno how to get her back even if they break up. On Facebook she says to text her, but I don't know if I should or not. She says were friends again, but I dunno how to ask her out if she's single again. How do I get her to like me back without annoying her?';
Maybe goto this website~ http://doiop.com/comebacktome
Im almost optimistic that it can aid you too because It aids me with my problem a while back.
.Keep up the friendship.Tell her to let you know if and when she's available.That way she'll be encouraging you to ask her outI love my ex again but her boyfriend is blocking out our love for each other?
Hello PeaceeNickk(:,
So, y0ur problem is:
';I have an ex, lets rename her Maggie. I love her a lot, and she already has a new boyfriend now and I dunno how to get her back even if they break up. On Facebook she says to text her, but I don't know if I should or not. She says were friends again, but I dunno how to ask her out if she's single again. How do I get her to like me back without annoying her?';
Maybe goto this website~ http://doiop.com/comebacktome
Im almost optimistic that it can aid you too because It aids me with my problem a while back.
How do I kiss my boyfriend for the first time?
My boyfriend and I have hugged. We have been dating for a week and a half, and I really like him. He is a year younger than me, so I feel like I have to be the leader. I am unsure how to hold his hand or kiss him because I have only ever had a few kisses and I've never held anyone's hand. Please, I need some help. I want to do this soon, but I don'tknow how and I am a little awkward with it. This is sort of new to me, so please help me. :)How do I kiss my boyfriend for the first time?
Sort of go in slowly for the kiss, be soft at first when you kiss him and then well as they say... 'whatever floats your boat'
As for holding hands, just sort of grab it and say is this okay, if it's not well then he's a plonker.
Sort of go in slowly for the kiss, be soft at first when you kiss him and then well as they say... 'whatever floats your boat'
As for holding hands, just sort of grab it and say is this okay, if it's not well then he's a plonker.
How can i suprise my boyfriend?
So he's comming back after being overseas for just over a month on holiday seeing family and shiz. I thought it would be really nice to suprise him with some thing(s). One big suprise? or lots of little ones? or lots of big ones? what should i do? Help Please :) Thanks xHow can i suprise my boyfriend?
Surprise him with anal sex.
Everyone's thinkin' it, im just sayin' it...How can i suprise my boyfriend?
I'm thinking on a number from 2 to four; don't want to extent to much, well...., take it from there ...
My suggestion : just wear a nice cloth and look pretty and smart infront of him..so he will attract with u and feel that everytime meet u, u prettier and more love u.
Second just gift a simple gift...like hug and kiss..will make him happy...u must remember that man like a simple things.
Third just cook something for him...even only simple cook but he will feel that u put effort to do something for him :)
Hope this help...
Get some things from Victoria's Secret that will make him happy! :D
Surprise him with anal sex.
Everyone's thinkin' it, im just sayin' it...How can i suprise my boyfriend?
I'm thinking on a number from 2 to four; don't want to extent to much, well...., take it from there ...
My suggestion : just wear a nice cloth and look pretty and smart infront of him..so he will attract with u and feel that everytime meet u, u prettier and more love u.
Second just gift a simple gift...like hug and kiss..will make him happy...u must remember that man like a simple things.
Third just cook something for him...even only simple cook but he will feel that u put effort to do something for him :)
Hope this help...
Get some things from Victoria's Secret that will make him happy! :D
How do i get my boyfriend back?
my boyfriend started acting like he didnt like me anymore so i decided to call him and ask him what he actually thought of me. he told me he still did like me but then the next day he dumped me. apparently i was acting like i didnt like HIM anymore. at first i was fine but now it has really sunk in and i miss him terribly. is there anyway i can get him back? (btw im in grade 7)How do i get my boyfriend back?
aw!! I think you should just go on without him. I know that's not really an answer to ur question, but just listen:
this will not be the last time your heart is broken, and i know it's hard
but when that special guy comes around -and it may not be 7th grade ;]- you'll forget all of these guys. They're just stepping stones to ';the one';
Just have fun with boyfriends at that age, don't take them too seriously
:)How do i get my boyfriend back?
Okay. First of all, you should try to talk to him again and ask him why he dumped you, and if he says the same thing, say, ';I really did like you, and still do';.. or something to that extent.
There is no need to droop yourself along though, letting him push you around.
aw!! I think you should just go on without him. I know that's not really an answer to ur question, but just listen:
this will not be the last time your heart is broken, and i know it's hard
but when that special guy comes around -and it may not be 7th grade ;]- you'll forget all of these guys. They're just stepping stones to ';the one';
Just have fun with boyfriends at that age, don't take them too seriously
:)How do i get my boyfriend back?
Okay. First of all, you should try to talk to him again and ask him why he dumped you, and if he says the same thing, say, ';I really did like you, and still do';.. or something to that extent.
There is no need to droop yourself along though, letting him push you around.
Is my mum being unfair? I need advice please. What age would you let your daughter have her boyfriend stay?
I've been with my boyfriend for a year, and we are both 17
Most of my friends of my age are allowed to stay round their boyfriends houses.
My mum won't let me stay round his house in case i get 'carried away' and 'regret' something. I understand that she is trying to look after me. But i'm not ready to have sex, and I won't have sex, no matter what happens, I'll say no to my boyfriend until I'm at least 18 or 19. The reason I say this is because my Mum is always talking about how she was 19 and speaking badly of those who have sex before that age (Which i don't think is very fair...)
So to respect my mum, i won't have sex with him until I am older. Plus I don't feel I am ready anyway.
I would love to stay at my boyfriend's house overnight, and i need a way to prove to my mum that I am responsible enough to know my boundaries.
All i want to do is fall asleep in his arms, not make babies! haha. Is my mum being reasonable?
I need suggestions on how to prove i am responsible enough to be trusted with my boyfriend in the same bed at night.
My boyfriend has asked about sex and I told him I'm not ready. He said he isn't going to ask me or even try because he doesn't want to put me in an awkward situation or upset me, he'll wait until i tell him I'm ready to make a move. I've never loved anybody like I love him, all i can think about is him and whenever i think about him i smile and am so, so happy. I can't describe it, but I think i'm in love with him.
THANKYOU! :)Is my mum being unfair? I need advice please. What age would you let your daughter have her boyfriend stay?
whether you believe it or not she is thinking of what is best for you. My mother wouldn't let my daughters father stay with us %26amp; I was 20 lol. Moms try to keep their lil girls safe for as long as they can %26amp; unless u want all the responsibilities of living on ur own u do live in her home %26amp; have to follow her rules. I have 2 daughters (6yrs %26amp; 1yr)%26amp; a step-son (12yrs) %26amp; wouldn't let any of them have company of the other sex stay in my home until they are married. old fashioned but safe.Is my mum being unfair? I need advice please. What age would you let your daughter have her boyfriend stay?
Wanting to sleep in your boyfriend's arms may sound good to you; but it's cruel to your boyfriend. He is going to be very aroused for no other reason than he is a young man with a girl in his bed. You would be sending a very ambiguous message about your ';readiness';. You might as well tell him that ';you can touch my left breast, but not my right';. Besides, if you trust your own heart in a circumstance like that, you are very foolish and naive. You WILL wind up eventually having sex before you are ready. I think your mother is right. Just because all of the other mothers have given up on their kids does not mean she has to. Listen to her.
never!
Sorry, Holz!, I know you think your mom is being harsh, but I think she's being as reasonable as she can be in a difficult situation.
You say you're probably in love with your boyfriend and want to fall asleep in his arms but you're not ready for sex. Ok. That's totally reasonable. And he won't push you or put you in an awkward situation. He sounds like an awesome guy! However, have you thought about how he might feel lying in bed with you and wanting to make love but bound to his previous promise to you? If you love him, why put him in that situation? That could be torture for the poor guy.
And I won't even get into how you can be in bed together and one thing leads to another and next thing you're having unprotected sex. Your mom just wants to protect you and your boyfriend from those scenarios. Be patient for now. Your time will come. :o)
im sure your mom trusts you, but she is wanting what is best for you. my father and mother would never allow this to happen! and the main reason was, even though they trusted me, they didnt trust him. you have to remember, our parents were young once,they know what goes on. and they have their own ideas and fears on how our adolescent lives are gonna compare to their own. its probably not that she doesnt trust you, its probably more that she knows what temptations you will be faced with by staying with your boyfriend even just for one night. and sometimes, those temptations are so hard to turn down that maybe she wouldnt want you to have to go through that. but be patient though, adulthood is right around the corner.
Your mom is being very reasonable in my opinion. Why should a 17 year old be staying at her boyfriend's house anyway?
I would not allow my daughter to stay over her bf's house either.
She really is looking out for you. Temptation might be there and you don't know
what will happen tomorrow. So I agree with your mother. I don't think a female your age should spend the night at her boyfriend's house. Sorry. But she really is looking out for you and your life.
I know you dont want to hear that, but if you listen, you will appreciate her in the end and let her know she's right.
sounds great in theory...but in reality you can only 'still' in his arms for so long. that year or two your wanting to wait will be put to the test at some point. i have 3 daughters and theyd be lucky to have a bf...ok im protective, but seriously... your mom is responsible for your irresponsibilty... and i think you sound like you know what your doing....but mom knows best for sure...when do you turn 18?
ok im not trying to kill your buzz but who ever lets their daughter stay the night at their bfs house must be effing retarded and im 17 and i think this and ur bf makes u happy now but who knows whats down the road trust me thats what i thought and now life is in the shitter so i would wait until college to start sleeping in the same bed cause as i guy one thing comes to mind when ur in the same bed as ur bf or gf
I would say no too. Once you turn 18 and get your own place, you can have your boyfriend overnight as much as you want. But your mom is right. At this point, laying down next to your long-term boyfriend, in a cozy bed and with total privacy for an entire night... something is bound to happen. Even if you don't go all the way, your hormones will be raging and it will be incredibly hard not to take things to the next level. If you aren't ready for sex yet, why take that chance? It's really not that easy to stop yourself from having sex when you're in that situation. We're not always able to control our sexual urges when we're this young. Just take a look at all the teenage mothers for proof of that.
To prove to your mom that you are responsible, start saving for your own place now and move out on your 18th birthday. Once you are taking complete care of yourself like an adult, then you can start doing adult things - like falling asleep in your boyfriend's arms.
what your mom is asking is totally fair. You sound like you have a good head on your shoulder. TRUST ME when I say, later on in life you'll appreciate her creating these boundaries.
She's not just being a meany. She's looking out for you.
I would never allow my daughter to have her boyfriend stay. I've been with my Fi for the past 5 years and I'm 25. I'm about to move out of my parent's house and in with my Fi, because we're getting married. I've never even thought about having my boyfriend stay the night. I think it's rude and disrespectful to my parents.
I wasn't allowed to stay at my boyfriend's apartment(that he shared with friends) until I graduated from college(I was 23) and until my parents realized that he was pretty much ';the one';, but that we were just not getting married or moving in together for financial reasons.
I don't understand how any teen or adult child living at home could think it's acceptable for their S.O. to stay the night. Your mother is just protecting you and you should respect that. When you have a child of your own someday, you'll understand.
i am a dad of four
i have 2 boys and 2 girls
i know how my 17 %26amp; 20 yr old boys act
and i know i can trust my girls (ages 15 %26amp; 12)
but i know better than most what boys are like i was a horny boy at 15 at im not about to let my duaghters stay the night with a boy untill they are out of college then they at least have an education and can make something of themselves.
your mom is trying to protect you jsut like my wife and i do with our kids.....trust your mom she knows whats best for you
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Well I think most of your friends parents are wrong and your parent is right. You are way to young to be spending the night at boyfriends house. YOu may not think you want to but things happen.
As a former teen boy I will say he anything but will only think of sex and try to get you to say yes
Most of my friends of my age are allowed to stay round their boyfriends houses.
My mum won't let me stay round his house in case i get 'carried away' and 'regret' something. I understand that she is trying to look after me. But i'm not ready to have sex, and I won't have sex, no matter what happens, I'll say no to my boyfriend until I'm at least 18 or 19. The reason I say this is because my Mum is always talking about how she was 19 and speaking badly of those who have sex before that age (Which i don't think is very fair...)
So to respect my mum, i won't have sex with him until I am older. Plus I don't feel I am ready anyway.
I would love to stay at my boyfriend's house overnight, and i need a way to prove to my mum that I am responsible enough to know my boundaries.
All i want to do is fall asleep in his arms, not make babies! haha. Is my mum being reasonable?
I need suggestions on how to prove i am responsible enough to be trusted with my boyfriend in the same bed at night.
My boyfriend has asked about sex and I told him I'm not ready. He said he isn't going to ask me or even try because he doesn't want to put me in an awkward situation or upset me, he'll wait until i tell him I'm ready to make a move. I've never loved anybody like I love him, all i can think about is him and whenever i think about him i smile and am so, so happy. I can't describe it, but I think i'm in love with him.
THANKYOU! :)Is my mum being unfair? I need advice please. What age would you let your daughter have her boyfriend stay?
whether you believe it or not she is thinking of what is best for you. My mother wouldn't let my daughters father stay with us %26amp; I was 20 lol. Moms try to keep their lil girls safe for as long as they can %26amp; unless u want all the responsibilities of living on ur own u do live in her home %26amp; have to follow her rules. I have 2 daughters (6yrs %26amp; 1yr)%26amp; a step-son (12yrs) %26amp; wouldn't let any of them have company of the other sex stay in my home until they are married. old fashioned but safe.Is my mum being unfair? I need advice please. What age would you let your daughter have her boyfriend stay?
Wanting to sleep in your boyfriend's arms may sound good to you; but it's cruel to your boyfriend. He is going to be very aroused for no other reason than he is a young man with a girl in his bed. You would be sending a very ambiguous message about your ';readiness';. You might as well tell him that ';you can touch my left breast, but not my right';. Besides, if you trust your own heart in a circumstance like that, you are very foolish and naive. You WILL wind up eventually having sex before you are ready. I think your mother is right. Just because all of the other mothers have given up on their kids does not mean she has to. Listen to her.
never!
Sorry, Holz!, I know you think your mom is being harsh, but I think she's being as reasonable as she can be in a difficult situation.
You say you're probably in love with your boyfriend and want to fall asleep in his arms but you're not ready for sex. Ok. That's totally reasonable. And he won't push you or put you in an awkward situation. He sounds like an awesome guy! However, have you thought about how he might feel lying in bed with you and wanting to make love but bound to his previous promise to you? If you love him, why put him in that situation? That could be torture for the poor guy.
And I won't even get into how you can be in bed together and one thing leads to another and next thing you're having unprotected sex. Your mom just wants to protect you and your boyfriend from those scenarios. Be patient for now. Your time will come. :o)
im sure your mom trusts you, but she is wanting what is best for you. my father and mother would never allow this to happen! and the main reason was, even though they trusted me, they didnt trust him. you have to remember, our parents were young once,they know what goes on. and they have their own ideas and fears on how our adolescent lives are gonna compare to their own. its probably not that she doesnt trust you, its probably more that she knows what temptations you will be faced with by staying with your boyfriend even just for one night. and sometimes, those temptations are so hard to turn down that maybe she wouldnt want you to have to go through that. but be patient though, adulthood is right around the corner.
Your mom is being very reasonable in my opinion. Why should a 17 year old be staying at her boyfriend's house anyway?
I would not allow my daughter to stay over her bf's house either.
She really is looking out for you. Temptation might be there and you don't know
what will happen tomorrow. So I agree with your mother. I don't think a female your age should spend the night at her boyfriend's house. Sorry. But she really is looking out for you and your life.
I know you dont want to hear that, but if you listen, you will appreciate her in the end and let her know she's right.
sounds great in theory...but in reality you can only 'still' in his arms for so long. that year or two your wanting to wait will be put to the test at some point. i have 3 daughters and theyd be lucky to have a bf...ok im protective, but seriously... your mom is responsible for your irresponsibilty... and i think you sound like you know what your doing....but mom knows best for sure...when do you turn 18?
ok im not trying to kill your buzz but who ever lets their daughter stay the night at their bfs house must be effing retarded and im 17 and i think this and ur bf makes u happy now but who knows whats down the road trust me thats what i thought and now life is in the shitter so i would wait until college to start sleeping in the same bed cause as i guy one thing comes to mind when ur in the same bed as ur bf or gf
I would say no too. Once you turn 18 and get your own place, you can have your boyfriend overnight as much as you want. But your mom is right. At this point, laying down next to your long-term boyfriend, in a cozy bed and with total privacy for an entire night... something is bound to happen. Even if you don't go all the way, your hormones will be raging and it will be incredibly hard not to take things to the next level. If you aren't ready for sex yet, why take that chance? It's really not that easy to stop yourself from having sex when you're in that situation. We're not always able to control our sexual urges when we're this young. Just take a look at all the teenage mothers for proof of that.
To prove to your mom that you are responsible, start saving for your own place now and move out on your 18th birthday. Once you are taking complete care of yourself like an adult, then you can start doing adult things - like falling asleep in your boyfriend's arms.
what your mom is asking is totally fair. You sound like you have a good head on your shoulder. TRUST ME when I say, later on in life you'll appreciate her creating these boundaries.
She's not just being a meany. She's looking out for you.
I would never allow my daughter to have her boyfriend stay. I've been with my Fi for the past 5 years and I'm 25. I'm about to move out of my parent's house and in with my Fi, because we're getting married. I've never even thought about having my boyfriend stay the night. I think it's rude and disrespectful to my parents.
I wasn't allowed to stay at my boyfriend's apartment(that he shared with friends) until I graduated from college(I was 23) and until my parents realized that he was pretty much ';the one';, but that we were just not getting married or moving in together for financial reasons.
I don't understand how any teen or adult child living at home could think it's acceptable for their S.O. to stay the night. Your mother is just protecting you and you should respect that. When you have a child of your own someday, you'll understand.
i am a dad of four
i have 2 boys and 2 girls
i know how my 17 %26amp; 20 yr old boys act
and i know i can trust my girls (ages 15 %26amp; 12)
but i know better than most what boys are like i was a horny boy at 15 at im not about to let my duaghters stay the night with a boy untill they are out of college then they at least have an education and can make something of themselves.
your mom is trying to protect you jsut like my wife and i do with our kids.....trust your mom she knows whats best for you
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Well I think most of your friends parents are wrong and your parent is right. You are way to young to be spending the night at boyfriends house. YOu may not think you want to but things happen.
As a former teen boy I will say he anything but will only think of sex and try to get you to say yes
How do I get my boyfriend to get a haircut?!?
He desperately needs one. His hair isn't long but it needs some sort of texture and style... and he wears this bandana every single day. I've hinted to him before but he just won't do it. And he's looking for a job. He won't be taken seriously if he doesn't cut his ******* hair! How do I get him to do it???How do I get my boyfriend to get a haircut?!?
Tell his mom. Seriously, boys do whatever their mom says, so go to his mom and say he needs a haircut. I think she'd agree with you and take him to the hairdresser. He can't escape from his mother. Hihih. It seriously worked for my boyfriend. Good luck.How do I get my boyfriend to get a haircut?!?
Tell him he looks like an idiot walking around with a bandanna on and that he would be soooo much sexier if he only got his hair cut.
start comenting on other guys hairstyles and how much you go for guys with great hair he'll soon want the attention back to him.
Tell his mom. Seriously, boys do whatever their mom says, so go to his mom and say he needs a haircut. I think she'd agree with you and take him to the hairdresser. He can't escape from his mother. Hihih. It seriously worked for my boyfriend. Good luck.How do I get my boyfriend to get a haircut?!?
Tell him he looks like an idiot walking around with a bandanna on and that he would be soooo much sexier if he only got his hair cut.
start comenting on other guys hairstyles and how much you go for guys with great hair he'll soon want the attention back to him.
How do i get my boyfriend to put his arms around me?
Is there any way i can get him to put his arm around me without asking?How do i get my boyfriend to put his arms around me?
Give him headHow do i get my boyfriend to put his arms around me?
take his arms and put them around you. :)
U shouldn't force him.. he should do it by his own free will
Well I would think he'd do that without you asking because his your boy friend! Hug him first then he will get used to the idea of hugging a girl back and of course it will be you.
Just hold his arm and put it around him without him even noticing, make it seem like it's not on purpose, very natural and see his reaction. If he's uncomfortable doing it maybe u not compatible :-/
Put you arm around him first. Monkey see, monkey do. He'll get the hint ---unless he's an airhead.
Give him headHow do i get my boyfriend to put his arms around me?
take his arms and put them around you. :)
U shouldn't force him.. he should do it by his own free will
Well I would think he'd do that without you asking because his your boy friend! Hug him first then he will get used to the idea of hugging a girl back and of course it will be you.
Just hold his arm and put it around him without him even noticing, make it seem like it's not on purpose, very natural and see his reaction. If he's uncomfortable doing it maybe u not compatible :-/
Put you arm around him first. Monkey see, monkey do. He'll get the hint ---unless he's an airhead.
How do i make my ex boyfriend understand that i've changed?
he says i feel more like a sister to him. how do i change that? and how do i get that special connection he doesnt feel anymore? AND how do i be more sexual with him?How do i make my ex boyfriend understand that i've changed?
move on, find someone elseHow do i make my ex boyfriend understand that i've changed?
SOMETIMES WE HAVE TO LET THE PAST STAY IN THE PAST. HE HAS. SO MOVE ON
Well it sounds like, yall could possibly be good friends rather than bf/gf...or at least he feels or wants it that way. Unfortunitley you cant make him understand that you dont want it that way, because apparently he feels its wrong to be together. Sometimes friends are better, maybe friends with benifts (if ur that type). It's not always bad, trust me. I started dating my highschool sweetheart in 11th grade, after we graduated we moved in together, a year later we had a kid, a month after that we broke up, and continued to get together and break up for about a 2 years. Finally i just got tired of it, and once we realized we connected and conversated better being friends than mates it was wonderful. Now he's a peice of crap dad, but a friend.
You can't make someone love you or make anyone want to be with you. All you can do is be friends with him right now and maybe one day in the future things will change. But for now be lucky you still have him in your life. I know it's hard, but trust me if he doesn't see what you have there will be someone that will see it, and you will look back on this and wonder what you were even asking the question for.Ltd bacteria
move on, find someone elseHow do i make my ex boyfriend understand that i've changed?
SOMETIMES WE HAVE TO LET THE PAST STAY IN THE PAST. HE HAS. SO MOVE ON
Well it sounds like, yall could possibly be good friends rather than bf/gf...or at least he feels or wants it that way. Unfortunitley you cant make him understand that you dont want it that way, because apparently he feels its wrong to be together. Sometimes friends are better, maybe friends with benifts (if ur that type). It's not always bad, trust me. I started dating my highschool sweetheart in 11th grade, after we graduated we moved in together, a year later we had a kid, a month after that we broke up, and continued to get together and break up for about a 2 years. Finally i just got tired of it, and once we realized we connected and conversated better being friends than mates it was wonderful. Now he's a peice of crap dad, but a friend.
You can't make someone love you or make anyone want to be with you. All you can do is be friends with him right now and maybe one day in the future things will change. But for now be lucky you still have him in your life. I know it's hard, but trust me if he doesn't see what you have there will be someone that will see it, and you will look back on this and wonder what you were even asking the question for.
How do i tell my parents?
I'm 15 and my parents are spliting up :( its been hard but my boyfriends been there for me.. i've been feeling strange and my periods are almost a week late? which is really weird because they are usually on time everytime. If i am pregnant i dont know how to ask my mum for help or even tell her? i dont know what to do ?How do i tell my parents?
oh honey, dont panic
have you done a test yet? because if you haven't then how are you sure, you're pregnant.
it couldd just be a normal late period. And if you are certain you are then it is best to tell the more calm parent first and if you can, bring your boyfriend with you.
:)
God bless..xHow do i tell my parents?
First you need to sit down with just your mom and tell her you really need to talk to her about something that is extremely important. Be honest with her and hopefully she will be supportive.Start off by saying I know you may think I'm too young for sex but I want to let you know that I am sexually active and there is a chance I may be pregnant and I need your help.
Good luck
Hi...
First of all don't panic or stress as this can delay your period...
The only way you are going to find out is if you come on your period or you do a test...
I suggest you get a test...
If your in the Uk brooke advisory clinic can help you with that, its all completely confidential..and from what I can gather I think US has something similar called planned parenthood?
Anyways..You need to do that first off...
Then if you are pregnant you need to sit down with your mum and try talk the situation through,
it wont easy for either of you, especially if your parents are going through a break up...
What do you mean by feeling really strange?
I fell pregnant at 17 and now have a little boy who is nearly 4...
I told my mum straight away and she was quite supportive, but my dad on the other hand was screaming at me to get an abortion...
You need to do what you think is right, don't let anyone push you into anything...
Good luck hun...
Keep us posted
x x
Before you make things worse for your parents, take a test, if it says positive,(it may be wrong) go to a clinic, and if it's still positive.
Tell, just say you're pregnant, I'm not going to sugar coat it like everyone else.
Because it's your responsiblity to be safe when you're having sex.
She's your mum, only you know what will be the best way to tell her.
Your choice, not ours. This is something you have to figure out for yourself.
If you need free counseling while you are making your decision (they respect your decision whatever it is): http://www.yourbackline.org
Info if you need it . . . .
http://www.womenshealthlondon.org.uk/lea鈥?/a>
This will walk you through getting an abortion through NHS
The law in England, Wales and Scotland says that you can have an abortion in the first 24 weeks of pregnancy as long as certain rules are met. You will be able to get an abortion on the NHS if you get the agreement of two doctors. They must be certain that the abortion meets the rules. Usually the first doctor is your GP and the second is a doctor working at the hospital or clinic where the abortion takes place. Legal abortions are available to women in Northern Ireland only in very limited circumstances.
You can get general advice and information about getting an abortion from your GP or family planning clinics.
Help is also available from voluntary organisations, for example, the British Pregnancy Advisory Service (BPAS), which runs its own clinics in England, Wales and Scotland (www.bpas.org.uk). Some abortions at a BPAS clinic are paid for by the NHS. This depends on where you live. You can get more information on the BPAS website at: www.bpas.org.uk. The website has information in a range of community languages, including Spanish, Polish and Punjabi.
If you cannot get the abortion on the NHS, you'll have to pay privately. The price depends on how many weeks pregnant you are and which method is used to carry out the abortion.
British Pregnancy Advisory Service (BPAS), which runs its own clinics in England, Wales and Scotland www.bpas.org.uk
NHS Direct website in England at www.nhsdirect.nhs.uk.
In Wales, visit the NHS Direct website at www.nhsdirect.wales.nhs.uk.
In Scotland, go to www.nhs24.com.
http://www.adviceguide.org.uk/index/your鈥?/a>
Good luck whatever you choose to do.
~Pro-Choice Momma; Have had an abortion %26lt;no regrets%26gt; and I have a 16 month old daughter %26lt;no regrets%26gt;. I believe in protecting my daughter's choice.
Abortion: There is a Consensus
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hsSQiazUv鈥?/a>
just talk to your mom and tell her that there is a possibility you might be pregnant...also take a home pregnancy test to check and see if youre pregnant...you have to talk to your mom for she can understand that you are going to need help throughout the pregnancy...she might be mad at first but later on she will get over it and will help you and the baby out...i hope everything works our for you...
awwwww....be strong
periods can be late due to stress
and if you wanna check if your are pregnant or not and don't wanna tell you mom...get a pregnancy test kit and check without telling her.
You need to just be honest with your parents. Trying to lie to them and hide it is only going to make you look childish. Be as mature about the situation as possible, that way if it turns out your going to be a mother you can be at least one step in the right direction. Yes it's going to be tough and I've been in your shoes when I was 15. I was so scared to tell my mother but I did and she was upset but was very glad I told her.
Make sure you are really pregnant before you bring it up and then just tell them like you tell them anything else in your life. Stand your ground if you want to keep, put up for adoption, or otherwise. They may have an idea that they have some say in the situation which they do, but it is your choice. Make sure you know what you want to do. Don't have the boyfriend with you because I know that if my daughter came to me and told me she was pregnant with the guy standing next to her I would be about murdering him.
If you tell the truth, it becomes part of your past.
If you tell a lie, it becomes part of your future.
No you're not pregnant
When you're pregnant your period stops all together
Don't worry and good luck with your parents!
maybe having a grandkid will bring them back together
oh honey, dont panic
have you done a test yet? because if you haven't then how are you sure, you're pregnant.
it couldd just be a normal late period. And if you are certain you are then it is best to tell the more calm parent first and if you can, bring your boyfriend with you.
:)
God bless..xHow do i tell my parents?
First you need to sit down with just your mom and tell her you really need to talk to her about something that is extremely important. Be honest with her and hopefully she will be supportive.Start off by saying I know you may think I'm too young for sex but I want to let you know that I am sexually active and there is a chance I may be pregnant and I need your help.
Good luck
Hi...
First of all don't panic or stress as this can delay your period...
The only way you are going to find out is if you come on your period or you do a test...
I suggest you get a test...
If your in the Uk brooke advisory clinic can help you with that, its all completely confidential..and from what I can gather I think US has something similar called planned parenthood?
Anyways..You need to do that first off...
Then if you are pregnant you need to sit down with your mum and try talk the situation through,
it wont easy for either of you, especially if your parents are going through a break up...
What do you mean by feeling really strange?
I fell pregnant at 17 and now have a little boy who is nearly 4...
I told my mum straight away and she was quite supportive, but my dad on the other hand was screaming at me to get an abortion...
You need to do what you think is right, don't let anyone push you into anything...
Good luck hun...
Keep us posted
x x
Before you make things worse for your parents, take a test, if it says positive,(it may be wrong) go to a clinic, and if it's still positive.
Tell, just say you're pregnant, I'm not going to sugar coat it like everyone else.
Because it's your responsiblity to be safe when you're having sex.
She's your mum, only you know what will be the best way to tell her.
Your choice, not ours. This is something you have to figure out for yourself.
If you need free counseling while you are making your decision (they respect your decision whatever it is): http://www.yourbackline.org
Info if you need it . . . .
http://www.womenshealthlondon.org.uk/lea鈥?/a>
This will walk you through getting an abortion through NHS
The law in England, Wales and Scotland says that you can have an abortion in the first 24 weeks of pregnancy as long as certain rules are met. You will be able to get an abortion on the NHS if you get the agreement of two doctors. They must be certain that the abortion meets the rules. Usually the first doctor is your GP and the second is a doctor working at the hospital or clinic where the abortion takes place. Legal abortions are available to women in Northern Ireland only in very limited circumstances.
You can get general advice and information about getting an abortion from your GP or family planning clinics.
Help is also available from voluntary organisations, for example, the British Pregnancy Advisory Service (BPAS), which runs its own clinics in England, Wales and Scotland (www.bpas.org.uk). Some abortions at a BPAS clinic are paid for by the NHS. This depends on where you live. You can get more information on the BPAS website at: www.bpas.org.uk. The website has information in a range of community languages, including Spanish, Polish and Punjabi.
If you cannot get the abortion on the NHS, you'll have to pay privately. The price depends on how many weeks pregnant you are and which method is used to carry out the abortion.
British Pregnancy Advisory Service (BPAS), which runs its own clinics in England, Wales and Scotland www.bpas.org.uk
NHS Direct website in England at www.nhsdirect.nhs.uk.
In Wales, visit the NHS Direct website at www.nhsdirect.wales.nhs.uk.
In Scotland, go to www.nhs24.com.
http://www.adviceguide.org.uk/index/your鈥?/a>
Good luck whatever you choose to do.
~Pro-Choice Momma; Have had an abortion %26lt;no regrets%26gt; and I have a 16 month old daughter %26lt;no regrets%26gt;. I believe in protecting my daughter's choice.
Abortion: There is a Consensus
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hsSQiazUv鈥?/a>
just talk to your mom and tell her that there is a possibility you might be pregnant...also take a home pregnancy test to check and see if youre pregnant...you have to talk to your mom for she can understand that you are going to need help throughout the pregnancy...she might be mad at first but later on she will get over it and will help you and the baby out...i hope everything works our for you...
awwwww....be strong
periods can be late due to stress
and if you wanna check if your are pregnant or not and don't wanna tell you mom...get a pregnancy test kit and check without telling her.
You need to just be honest with your parents. Trying to lie to them and hide it is only going to make you look childish. Be as mature about the situation as possible, that way if it turns out your going to be a mother you can be at least one step in the right direction. Yes it's going to be tough and I've been in your shoes when I was 15. I was so scared to tell my mother but I did and she was upset but was very glad I told her.
Make sure you are really pregnant before you bring it up and then just tell them like you tell them anything else in your life. Stand your ground if you want to keep, put up for adoption, or otherwise. They may have an idea that they have some say in the situation which they do, but it is your choice. Make sure you know what you want to do. Don't have the boyfriend with you because I know that if my daughter came to me and told me she was pregnant with the guy standing next to her I would be about murdering him.
If you tell the truth, it becomes part of your past.
If you tell a lie, it becomes part of your future.
No you're not pregnant
When you're pregnant your period stops all together
Don't worry and good luck with your parents!
maybe having a grandkid will bring them back together
Help I think I am pregnant how should I tell my boyfriend?
But the thing is that im not sure if he is the father or not but I have narrowed it down to a couple of guys but I still have to tell my parents? Should I tell all the guys who could possibly be the father?Help I think I am pregnant how should I tell my boyfriend?
Go to the Maury show and test 10 guys, then run off the stage when Maury says ';You are NOT the father!';Help I think I am pregnant how should I tell my boyfriend?
Tell everyone, they will find out sooner or later anyway, and maybe sticking to one partner or using some kind of contraception might be a good idea hmmm...
okay first make sure you are pregnant. Wait till you go to the dr. and make sure! Tell your parents frst and its prob going to be embarasing but tell them your not sure who the father is...Maybe you should break up with your bf and tell him you are preg but he might not be the dad bc you cheated on him with several other guys...i dnt understand how you cant know who your babys daddy is thats sad!
TRAMP, God help your child if you are pregnant....
Who did you have sex with 14 days before your expected period? Take a pregnancy test when your period is due and then if you are pregnant then u can tell someone.This is not something you want to tell anyone.
idk but im sure jerry springer can find that **** out lol
u need to be honest with him if u decide to tell him. tell him it may or may not be his. give him the choice of a paternity test. if it is not him, take all of the other guys in for a paternity test as well. if u are pregnant, the child needs to know who the father is. at least give him/her that right.
Why don't you calm down and find out for sure if you're pregnant first. From there tell your parents and go see a doctor. They can narrow down the conception days for you. Unfortunately if you were sleeping around with these guys all around the same time that won't help you.
Go to the Maury show and test 10 guys, then run off the stage when Maury says ';You are NOT the father!';Help I think I am pregnant how should I tell my boyfriend?
Tell everyone, they will find out sooner or later anyway, and maybe sticking to one partner or using some kind of contraception might be a good idea hmmm...
okay first make sure you are pregnant. Wait till you go to the dr. and make sure! Tell your parents frst and its prob going to be embarasing but tell them your not sure who the father is...Maybe you should break up with your bf and tell him you are preg but he might not be the dad bc you cheated on him with several other guys...i dnt understand how you cant know who your babys daddy is thats sad!
TRAMP, God help your child if you are pregnant....
Who did you have sex with 14 days before your expected period? Take a pregnancy test when your period is due and then if you are pregnant then u can tell someone.This is not something you want to tell anyone.
idk but im sure jerry springer can find that **** out lol
u need to be honest with him if u decide to tell him. tell him it may or may not be his. give him the choice of a paternity test. if it is not him, take all of the other guys in for a paternity test as well. if u are pregnant, the child needs to know who the father is. at least give him/her that right.
Why don't you calm down and find out for sure if you're pregnant first. From there tell your parents and go see a doctor. They can narrow down the conception days for you. Unfortunately if you were sleeping around with these guys all around the same time that won't help you.
When i am with my boyfriend i get discharge. how come?
i love (or really really like if you must) him. and when ever i am with my boyfriend and if he would hug or kiss me, i get this clear, vaginal discharge. it tends to be goo-ey. i wouldn't get it all at once it would like gradually add up. its similar to the discharge i get right after my period.
i am a virgin and 16.When i am with my boyfriend i get discharge. how come?
it happens when you get an orgasm.When i am with my boyfriend i get discharge. how come?
This is really normal. I too am a Virgin and the same happens to me when i'm with my boyfriend. It's only your body reacting to it's want for sexual relations. When people refer to a girl being ';wet';, this is what they are meaning. It isn't anything bad at all. You're just turned on by the guy and your body is readying itself for anything that you might do with him. Such as sexual intercourse.
So, don't worry. It's normal and you have nothing to worry about :)
When you are sexually aroused your vagina becomes lubricated to prepare for sex.
When your bf kisses or hugs you, you are sexually aroused.
It is not an orgasm. You become lubricated in preparation for sex. It doesn't matter if you aren't actually having sex. Your body doesn't know that, it just wants to be prepared.
Its called an orgasm, and it occurs when you get sexually excited.
What you are experiencing is your vaginal lubrication. You are all horny and wound up, and your body is preparing to have intercourse.
Kissing is part of foreplay, and your body is telling you that you are excited. It is nothing to be worried about. your body is responding well. if this kissing and hugging lead to sex then this discharge will help you to get him in easily.
If you don't like the way it feels or you want to protect your undies, try wearing a pantyliner when you are with your boyfriend. The pantyliner will absorb the vaginal discharge and help you feel fresh and dry.
hope that i answer your question
He is making you excited and that is your natural lubricant
i am a virgin and 16.When i am with my boyfriend i get discharge. how come?
it happens when you get an orgasm.When i am with my boyfriend i get discharge. how come?
This is really normal. I too am a Virgin and the same happens to me when i'm with my boyfriend. It's only your body reacting to it's want for sexual relations. When people refer to a girl being ';wet';, this is what they are meaning. It isn't anything bad at all. You're just turned on by the guy and your body is readying itself for anything that you might do with him. Such as sexual intercourse.
So, don't worry. It's normal and you have nothing to worry about :)
When you are sexually aroused your vagina becomes lubricated to prepare for sex.
When your bf kisses or hugs you, you are sexually aroused.
It is not an orgasm. You become lubricated in preparation for sex. It doesn't matter if you aren't actually having sex. Your body doesn't know that, it just wants to be prepared.
Its called an orgasm, and it occurs when you get sexually excited.
What you are experiencing is your vaginal lubrication. You are all horny and wound up, and your body is preparing to have intercourse.
Kissing is part of foreplay, and your body is telling you that you are excited. It is nothing to be worried about. your body is responding well. if this kissing and hugging lead to sex then this discharge will help you to get him in easily.
If you don't like the way it feels or you want to protect your undies, try wearing a pantyliner when you are with your boyfriend. The pantyliner will absorb the vaginal discharge and help you feel fresh and dry.
hope that i answer your question
He is making you excited and that is your natural lubricant
Why am i so scared to be intimate with him?
being intimate with my boyfriend always feels great. i love being close to him and being intimate with him but i always feel scared at first. like i get really nervous but once we're on the bed everything just feels right. he is worried that he's pressuring me and that its not something i want to do because of how i react. i really do enjoy being with him i just get so nervous. why do i feel this way and how do i get over out?Why am i so scared to be intimate with him?
I used to be like that ALL the time! For me, I was always just scared of what was going to happen. Not really scared, but worried he wouldn't like it, or like me. His reaction always made me nervous. And then I would get even more scared because I'd feel embarrassed about all the possible reactions he could have to me. Part of me, I think, was that I wasn't exactly as ready as I thought I was to get intimate. To get over it, I just relaxed some.. I just thought about how he IS with me and how much he loves me and how much he loves being intimate. I think you just get scared at first, 'cause you're fine after. It's like trying a new thing, you know? Scary, but once you do it, you love it and wanna do it again. But it's like trying the same thing feels like a new thing over and over again. You'll get over it. Just remember he loves you. You're just being a little shy. In a way, you should treasure those moments. I miss the way I used to feel, that fear and excitement. Don't get me wrong, I'm extremely happy lol. But yeah, just go with if it feels right to you. Keep remembering he loves you no matter what!Why am i so scared to be intimate with him?
Maybe your scared of what it will be like afterwords. Liking it is NOT the same and loving it. So if your not sure you love it you dont have to do it.
I used to be like that ALL the time! For me, I was always just scared of what was going to happen. Not really scared, but worried he wouldn't like it, or like me. His reaction always made me nervous. And then I would get even more scared because I'd feel embarrassed about all the possible reactions he could have to me. Part of me, I think, was that I wasn't exactly as ready as I thought I was to get intimate. To get over it, I just relaxed some.. I just thought about how he IS with me and how much he loves me and how much he loves being intimate. I think you just get scared at first, 'cause you're fine after. It's like trying a new thing, you know? Scary, but once you do it, you love it and wanna do it again. But it's like trying the same thing feels like a new thing over and over again. You'll get over it. Just remember he loves you. You're just being a little shy. In a way, you should treasure those moments. I miss the way I used to feel, that fear and excitement. Don't get me wrong, I'm extremely happy lol. But yeah, just go with if it feels right to you. Keep remembering he loves you no matter what!Why am i so scared to be intimate with him?
Maybe your scared of what it will be like afterwords. Liking it is NOT the same and loving it. So if your not sure you love it you dont have to do it.
How can i make my boyfriend dump me?
i don't want to dump him because he gets hurt easily and i really like him but as a mate really. i always get mixed up when i talk to him and i just really liked it when we were mates...How can i make my boyfriend dump me?
sleep with random menHow can i make my boyfriend dump me?
tell him the truth
Grow a spine and just break up with him.
Don't be so manipulative - do your own dirty work.
tell him u had a one night stand n u was drunk?
gross him out,get on his nerves,be really in his buisness.
look unattractive to him and don't bathe for a while so you'll stink. perhaps act slutty around him too. you'll be dumped in no time.
I say dump him because he will get more hurt if you do things to make him break up with you. The truth is always the best. Good luck
Cheat on him.
dissagree with him and dont talk to him as much as u used to. OR just dump him urself!
even if he gets hurt easily, you shouldnt string him along. talk to him and tell him you just wanna be friends. yes you risk him not wanting to be firends anymore but at least you will have done the right thing.
Thats probably not the best way to do it. If you really don't want to be with him the best answer would be honesty. It will just cause issues for you and him if you try to make him dump you. Unfortunately if you are dumping him to become ';mates'; again, this will -not- work. Unless this is a very rare person.
I would suggest not stabbing him in the eye with a fork also.
If you only liked him as a mate or a friend then how are you boyfriend and girlfriend. You probably gave him the wrong idea that you really liked him when you didn't. Now he's going to get his feelings hurt because you were dishonest with him.
its mean to act different and make him jealous, but it can lead him to dumping you. or you could pluck up the courage and dump him, because he's going to have to deal with break ups later on in life, he may feel the same way, which would then really help with your friendship. (: good luck (:
watch How to lose a guy in 10 days
easy, you break up with him
try and catch him out.
or let him down gently saying you don't feel the relationship i going anywhere
The thing is, you may want to make him break up with you, but that's not going to end well. First of all think about it, do you really want to break up with him or is it just a small dent in your relationship, or do you just want to break up with him. If you decide that you actually want to break up with him, break it to him easily, go somewhere in private and tell him you are really happy to be in a relationship with him but its a little award and you might just be better of being just friends. It might hurt both of you for a while but it will end well someday
here is mine: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AoTUKsjRfKrFB68Lco5yEWXsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20100425054505AAZatpa
just tell him you would be better off as friends
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Tell him you are thinking of becoming a Nun and as such you will have to part...failing that tell him you are now into girls.
sleep with random menHow can i make my boyfriend dump me?
tell him the truth
Grow a spine and just break up with him.
Don't be so manipulative - do your own dirty work.
tell him u had a one night stand n u was drunk?
gross him out,get on his nerves,be really in his buisness.
look unattractive to him and don't bathe for a while so you'll stink. perhaps act slutty around him too. you'll be dumped in no time.
I say dump him because he will get more hurt if you do things to make him break up with you. The truth is always the best. Good luck
Cheat on him.
dissagree with him and dont talk to him as much as u used to. OR just dump him urself!
even if he gets hurt easily, you shouldnt string him along. talk to him and tell him you just wanna be friends. yes you risk him not wanting to be firends anymore but at least you will have done the right thing.
Thats probably not the best way to do it. If you really don't want to be with him the best answer would be honesty. It will just cause issues for you and him if you try to make him dump you. Unfortunately if you are dumping him to become ';mates'; again, this will -not- work. Unless this is a very rare person.
I would suggest not stabbing him in the eye with a fork also.
If you only liked him as a mate or a friend then how are you boyfriend and girlfriend. You probably gave him the wrong idea that you really liked him when you didn't. Now he's going to get his feelings hurt because you were dishonest with him.
its mean to act different and make him jealous, but it can lead him to dumping you. or you could pluck up the courage and dump him, because he's going to have to deal with break ups later on in life, he may feel the same way, which would then really help with your friendship. (: good luck (:
watch How to lose a guy in 10 days
easy, you break up with him
try and catch him out.
or let him down gently saying you don't feel the relationship i going anywhere
The thing is, you may want to make him break up with you, but that's not going to end well. First of all think about it, do you really want to break up with him or is it just a small dent in your relationship, or do you just want to break up with him. If you decide that you actually want to break up with him, break it to him easily, go somewhere in private and tell him you are really happy to be in a relationship with him but its a little award and you might just be better of being just friends. It might hurt both of you for a while but it will end well someday
here is mine: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AoTUKsjRfKrFB68Lco5yEWXsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20100425054505AAZatpa
just tell him you would be better off as friends
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Tell him you are thinking of becoming a Nun and as such you will have to part...failing that tell him you are now into girls.
How should i do to get a boyfriend?
i am 19 years old girl. and until now i never have a boyfriend. people said that i am beautiful. but i don't know why there is no boy want me to be their girlfriend. i have ever think maybe because i am an aikidoka so they feel afraid with me...
what should i do to get a boyfriend? because sometimes i feel jealous with my friend who have so many boyfriendHow should i do to get a boyfriend?
Hello beautiful,
Be yourself, stop trying to impress and live for you, buy an out fit, wear it, the first guy you see that is cute, ask him to a movie. And girlie, you are charming and confident. Go get'em tiger!
Play eye of the tiger while getting ready with a friend!!! For laughs!How should i do to get a boyfriend?
I know i am ssoooo not much help. but i'm going to try anyway. I may be only 15, but i was in the same position as you for the last 15 years. I was always jealous of all the other girls in my grade because boys wanted them, and they got kisses and i didnt even know what kissing felt like. i wanted more than anything to have an amazing boyfriend and get amazing kisses just like everyone else. I'm shy. I'm a brown belt in Tae Kwon Do and im a tom boy type girl. Guys barely ever talked to me. they still dont talk much to me. I did fall for some insane player, partly because i was sick and tired of not being like other girls. DO NOT LET THIS HAPPEN TO YOU!! you will regret it. i didnt do anything really wrong with him, we did make out a bit. he left me for someone else, when he said he wanted to date me. we never did date. but after that i just waited it out. being patient works. it sooo hard not to be jealous, believe me. but It will happen when its your time, just like it happend to me. I now am having my first real relationship. I know that you are 19, but be paitent, talk to guys you see around. maybe they will like you back. you never know. anyway, good luck
be yourself
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omg im young but it seems noguy really likes me plz hlp ppl
Never compare yourself with your friends and their relationships, you will be much happier because of it. And you are ';maybe because i am an aikidoka so they feel afraid with me'; what? what is an aikidoka? Anyway just look cute, be nice, and remember that you are a girl eventually some guy will be attracted you (if not then go and find guys on your own).
become best friends with a guy you like.
there's nothing wrong with being single. it just means that your 'prince charming' hasn't shown up yet or its just not time yet. fate has its ways.
but if you want a boyfriend, try looking for a guy that you are physically and mentally attracted to. flirt with this guy and try smiling a lot when he's there. this will show him that you are interested in not only him,but a relationship as well. try being really flirty with him, but don't over do it!
also dont take things too fast or they will end up fast as well!
just be yourself and one day there will be a guy that will come to your life and magically change everything. :)
aikidoka? i googled that %26amp; it wa slike samurais ninja shyt O:
id love to be wit u
don't be jealous of them its more likely that women with many boyfriend's at a young age turn out to be terrible wife's divorced step children even whores in some cases and any women who are reading this that had a lot of boyfriend's no offense and i married the guy i first dated.
Act fun!
Well, you're still young, so you have plenty of time, plus its easier at that age to meet guys, school, danceclubs, parties, etc, etc. Just go out with friends, eventually you'll meet someone.
be more outgoing and confident =)
go get your groove on like stella
Hello fellow 19 year old, boyfriendless girl!
Im in the same situation, the guys that I want to go out with are always taken or see me only as a friend.
I get upset sometimes too because all of my friends have been in relationships.
But then, its actually fun to be single. I mean look at the positives: you can flirt with who ever you want, you wont have to worry about someone breaking your heart, or cheating on you.
Enjoy being single!
Im sure that you'll find someone when time comes.Ltd bacteria
what should i do to get a boyfriend? because sometimes i feel jealous with my friend who have so many boyfriendHow should i do to get a boyfriend?
Hello beautiful,
Be yourself, stop trying to impress and live for you, buy an out fit, wear it, the first guy you see that is cute, ask him to a movie. And girlie, you are charming and confident. Go get'em tiger!
Play eye of the tiger while getting ready with a friend!!! For laughs!How should i do to get a boyfriend?
I know i am ssoooo not much help. but i'm going to try anyway. I may be only 15, but i was in the same position as you for the last 15 years. I was always jealous of all the other girls in my grade because boys wanted them, and they got kisses and i didnt even know what kissing felt like. i wanted more than anything to have an amazing boyfriend and get amazing kisses just like everyone else. I'm shy. I'm a brown belt in Tae Kwon Do and im a tom boy type girl. Guys barely ever talked to me. they still dont talk much to me. I did fall for some insane player, partly because i was sick and tired of not being like other girls. DO NOT LET THIS HAPPEN TO YOU!! you will regret it. i didnt do anything really wrong with him, we did make out a bit. he left me for someone else, when he said he wanted to date me. we never did date. but after that i just waited it out. being patient works. it sooo hard not to be jealous, believe me. but It will happen when its your time, just like it happend to me. I now am having my first real relationship. I know that you are 19, but be paitent, talk to guys you see around. maybe they will like you back. you never know. anyway, good luck
be yourself
answer my question?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>
omg im young but it seems noguy really likes me plz hlp ppl
Never compare yourself with your friends and their relationships, you will be much happier because of it. And you are ';maybe because i am an aikidoka so they feel afraid with me'; what? what is an aikidoka? Anyway just look cute, be nice, and remember that you are a girl eventually some guy will be attracted you (if not then go and find guys on your own).
become best friends with a guy you like.
there's nothing wrong with being single. it just means that your 'prince charming' hasn't shown up yet or its just not time yet. fate has its ways.
but if you want a boyfriend, try looking for a guy that you are physically and mentally attracted to. flirt with this guy and try smiling a lot when he's there. this will show him that you are interested in not only him,but a relationship as well. try being really flirty with him, but don't over do it!
also dont take things too fast or they will end up fast as well!
just be yourself and one day there will be a guy that will come to your life and magically change everything. :)
aikidoka? i googled that %26amp; it wa slike samurais ninja shyt O:
id love to be wit u
don't be jealous of them its more likely that women with many boyfriend's at a young age turn out to be terrible wife's divorced step children even whores in some cases and any women who are reading this that had a lot of boyfriend's no offense and i married the guy i first dated.
Act fun!
Well, you're still young, so you have plenty of time, plus its easier at that age to meet guys, school, danceclubs, parties, etc, etc. Just go out with friends, eventually you'll meet someone.
be more outgoing and confident =)
go get your groove on like stella
Hello fellow 19 year old, boyfriendless girl!
Im in the same situation, the guys that I want to go out with are always taken or see me only as a friend.
I get upset sometimes too because all of my friends have been in relationships.
But then, its actually fun to be single. I mean look at the positives: you can flirt with who ever you want, you wont have to worry about someone breaking your heart, or cheating on you.
Enjoy being single!
Im sure that you'll find someone when time comes.
My boyfriend lied to me about meeting a girl on a business trip.?
He had a trip planned and then made comments and suggestions for a female to go there as well. I confronted him and he said it was work related. I dismissed this and suggested that work trips should be planned through work. I had forgotten all about this incident. When he arrived at his destination his communication became very brief, we would talk for a couple minutes when we would usually talk for mh longer. He even go off the phone when he got back to his hotel. Again, this was no big deal. But I couldn't shake the feeling that something was wrong .He was very different. I got online to send him a message and saw that the girl he had talked to was in fact at the same place, the same hotel and at the exact same time. This location is not on every ones route, it is in fact an island and outside of the normal work locations. When I asked him what was going on he denied knowing anything about it. I called him a couple times and he did not answer. When he called back he said he was sleeping - it was 9pm there- and I could hear the elevator dinging in the background. He said she wasn't there, then he said she was supposed to go but it got canceled then he went on to sa he loves me moe than anything etc, etc. I called the hotel, they where both there and had both checked out the same day. I read her posts and found this was not the First time they where at the same place at the same time. The, suddenly all the posts where gone, he had told her I saw them. I asked if she wasn't there how did she know I was reading these, if there was nothing to hide why where the posts gone. He first denied any involvement then said he emailed her.He said he would do anything to prove he didn't do anything, I said forward the email to me. Several days went by and I asked if he had sent it. He now says he deleted it and cant retrieve it. I just want to know if all these coincidence are just that. I also want to know what I should do? I also need to say that he also took ';an old friend'; to dinner and lied to me about it until I stumbled upon the truth- a speeding ticket. He then said it was wrong he should not have lied etc. What now? I have asked him to prove he wasn't with her, that is was all just strange circumstance and that he will in the future be honest from the beginning. I know when he is lying he has many many ';tells'; I just cant seem to get him to understand I don't want to be with someone who lies to meMy boyfriend lied to me about meeting a girl on a business trip.?
This all sounds very sketchy... I wouldn't trust him... Go with your guts. Do you really want to stay in a relationship where you'll be suspicious every time he goes on a trip or goes out for dinner?My boyfriend lied to me about meeting a girl on a business trip.?
Ditch this scumbag dont have anything to do with him he is having an affair and taking you for a fool. I wouldnt make myself available to him.
This guy sounds like a cheat. If he isn't then he shouldn't be lying and putting you through this. You need to decide if you can trust him or not. If you can't then there's no point putting yourself through this anymore..
This all sounds very sketchy... I wouldn't trust him... Go with your guts. Do you really want to stay in a relationship where you'll be suspicious every time he goes on a trip or goes out for dinner?My boyfriend lied to me about meeting a girl on a business trip.?
Ditch this scumbag dont have anything to do with him he is having an affair and taking you for a fool. I wouldnt make myself available to him.
This guy sounds like a cheat. If he isn't then he shouldn't be lying and putting you through this. You need to decide if you can trust him or not. If you can't then there's no point putting yourself through this anymore..
Is there a way to banish the ';stupid'; feeling when high and just maintain the body buzz- good feeling?
I hate the stupid feeling I get and how my mind doesn't seem to work properly when I'm stoned. My boyfriend is the complete opposite. Is there a way to help the feeling go away?Is there a way to banish the ';stupid'; feeling when high and just maintain the body buzz- good feeling?
seriously? don't do drugs. you need help. the reason you feel stupid is because you are making yourself stupid from drugs.
seriously? don't do drugs. you need help. the reason you feel stupid is because you are making yourself stupid from drugs.
Would you be angry if your boyfriend/husband did this to you?
My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years, we took a break for about a month and now we are back together. He is 30 and I am 26. While we were on a break he hooked up with another girl and he didn't come clean about how much he did with her (sexually)until we had an STD talk. He met this girl from some younger girls he used to work with at a restaurant. He no longer works there but I guess he still talks to the two girls and they introduced him to one of their friends. They were also her roommates.
We are trying to work things out and I agreed to not bring up his hook up and we would try to move on. I also tried to reconnect with an ex on our break but it didn't work out and my boyfriend and I decided to get back together. He told the other girl he didn't want to see her anymore and got back with me. He also told me that he wouldn't talk to her roommates anymore either because I was more important to him. Her roommates would call him late night, ask what was going on with him and the other girl, etc. It made me uncomfortable.
Yesterday, my boyfriend told me he was going to the DMV, which he did. He just neglected to tell me that he called the two girls that set him up with his hook up and met them for lunch. One of my friends texted me and told me that she saw him eating lunch with two other girls and he didn't say hello to her. He never told me about what he was doing. I confronted him about it and he got defensive. I don't think it is fair for him to put me in a situation like this when we are supposed to be trying to move on. It bothers me that he is hanging out with his hookups friends/roommates and not telling me about it. I am also uncomfortable with the fact that my b.f. is 30 and the two girls he wnet to lunch with are 19. What could he possibly have in common with a 19 year old??? The last he told me was that he wasn't going to have any contact with any of it. I am super angry. Am I over reacting? Would you be angry?Would you be angry if your boyfriend/husband did this to you?
You have every right to be angry. If he has nothing to hide he shouldn't be getting defensive over the situation. From what you have said he doesn't sound like a good guy and I wouldn't waste your time. He may not have lied to you and told you he didn't see them. But, he with held that information which is the same as lying. You deserve better than him and can do a lot better.Would you be angry if your boyfriend/husband did this to you?
You have every right to be angry. I don't see how you can move on if he is lying to you. Maybe you would be better off without him if he is going to lie and if he didn't come clean right away about sleeping with another girl. You deserve better.
He is using you. Break up with up and if you stay with him any longer you are gonig to have a meltdown....plz, trust me, I would know. I'm pretty sure he says oh i love you, you are the best and then he is with other girls, like all the time and yuo dont even know, he is a player.
I think that these girls are just co-workers, friends of his, but he should invite you along, and shouldn't hide them from you.
Id be pissed and so hurt! You are NOT over reacting! Tell him to get with it or get lost. dont waste your time if he keeps ******* around
So he lied and wants you to be ok with it. Why didn't he invite you along?
He's looking for something/someone other than you.
I wouldn't waste anymore time on him. This whole ';break'; crap is just an excuse to NOT work on whatever is wrong in your relationship and to make sure you have ';legit'; time to f7ck someone else.
I would move on.
You feel how you feel and no one can tell you you are wrong. I personally think you ought to be upset because of the various things you mentioned. He has lied already about the encounters he had with this girl and he lied again after coming clean. He sounds immature to pursue anything with 19 year old girls. It would probably be easier to end it now. You are 26 and he is 30 and you both are old enough to not have to mature together. If you were 19 and he was 20 I would expect this kind of immaturity and tell you he will grow up. 30 though, there is no hope.
Of course he shouldn't lie to you but he didn't meet with the hook up but his 2 friends. I'd not be happy about the lies though!
i know you prob dont want to hear this but you need to get rid ,if you let him get away with this he will have no respect for you an that is as important as respect
Sex is pretty much the common denominator
Why would you be ';super angry';? In submitting to a sexual relationship OUTSIDE of marriage, you have told him in no uncertain terms that you DON'T CARE about promises, vows or covenants. You have already proved to him that sex inside of marriage means nothing to you. And he just reaffirmed that. Why would YOU get all pissed off for him doing exactly what you have doing with him all along?
Did you mother not tell you to NOT have sex before marriage? Gee....why is that? Because then you would not be in the predicament that you YOURSELF established.
You're only mad because you finally came to the place where your lack of morals and imperfect character ethics came back and bit you!
Where do you go from here? Sorry, but you can't start over. You've already set the boundaries up for what you expect in relationship. And that is...........no boundaries.
He is just a double crosser. Have nothing to do with him, just leave him for good and move on. He will never change, and I think you are wasting your time worrying about him and trying to find out what is common in his connection. The other two girls are acting as a go between and maybe pimping for him. He is definitely not the guy for you. You can get a nice clean guy in your life later. If there is sex involved, just stop having it with him. Get yourself tested to make sure that you have not contacted any STD, that is if you have indulged yourself with him. Just get him out of your life for good, he is just not a decent guy. Take care. God bless you. I would have killed him by now if it had happened to me.
We are trying to work things out and I agreed to not bring up his hook up and we would try to move on. I also tried to reconnect with an ex on our break but it didn't work out and my boyfriend and I decided to get back together. He told the other girl he didn't want to see her anymore and got back with me. He also told me that he wouldn't talk to her roommates anymore either because I was more important to him. Her roommates would call him late night, ask what was going on with him and the other girl, etc. It made me uncomfortable.
Yesterday, my boyfriend told me he was going to the DMV, which he did. He just neglected to tell me that he called the two girls that set him up with his hook up and met them for lunch. One of my friends texted me and told me that she saw him eating lunch with two other girls and he didn't say hello to her. He never told me about what he was doing. I confronted him about it and he got defensive. I don't think it is fair for him to put me in a situation like this when we are supposed to be trying to move on. It bothers me that he is hanging out with his hookups friends/roommates and not telling me about it. I am also uncomfortable with the fact that my b.f. is 30 and the two girls he wnet to lunch with are 19. What could he possibly have in common with a 19 year old??? The last he told me was that he wasn't going to have any contact with any of it. I am super angry. Am I over reacting? Would you be angry?Would you be angry if your boyfriend/husband did this to you?
You have every right to be angry. If he has nothing to hide he shouldn't be getting defensive over the situation. From what you have said he doesn't sound like a good guy and I wouldn't waste your time. He may not have lied to you and told you he didn't see them. But, he with held that information which is the same as lying. You deserve better than him and can do a lot better.Would you be angry if your boyfriend/husband did this to you?
You have every right to be angry. I don't see how you can move on if he is lying to you. Maybe you would be better off without him if he is going to lie and if he didn't come clean right away about sleeping with another girl. You deserve better.
He is using you. Break up with up and if you stay with him any longer you are gonig to have a meltdown....plz, trust me, I would know. I'm pretty sure he says oh i love you, you are the best and then he is with other girls, like all the time and yuo dont even know, he is a player.
I think that these girls are just co-workers, friends of his, but he should invite you along, and shouldn't hide them from you.
Id be pissed and so hurt! You are NOT over reacting! Tell him to get with it or get lost. dont waste your time if he keeps ******* around
So he lied and wants you to be ok with it. Why didn't he invite you along?
He's looking for something/someone other than you.
I wouldn't waste anymore time on him. This whole ';break'; crap is just an excuse to NOT work on whatever is wrong in your relationship and to make sure you have ';legit'; time to f7ck someone else.
I would move on.
You feel how you feel and no one can tell you you are wrong. I personally think you ought to be upset because of the various things you mentioned. He has lied already about the encounters he had with this girl and he lied again after coming clean. He sounds immature to pursue anything with 19 year old girls. It would probably be easier to end it now. You are 26 and he is 30 and you both are old enough to not have to mature together. If you were 19 and he was 20 I would expect this kind of immaturity and tell you he will grow up. 30 though, there is no hope.
Of course he shouldn't lie to you but he didn't meet with the hook up but his 2 friends. I'd not be happy about the lies though!
i know you prob dont want to hear this but you need to get rid ,if you let him get away with this he will have no respect for you an that is as important as respect
Sex is pretty much the common denominator
Why would you be ';super angry';? In submitting to a sexual relationship OUTSIDE of marriage, you have told him in no uncertain terms that you DON'T CARE about promises, vows or covenants. You have already proved to him that sex inside of marriage means nothing to you. And he just reaffirmed that. Why would YOU get all pissed off for him doing exactly what you have doing with him all along?
Did you mother not tell you to NOT have sex before marriage? Gee....why is that? Because then you would not be in the predicament that you YOURSELF established.
You're only mad because you finally came to the place where your lack of morals and imperfect character ethics came back and bit you!
Where do you go from here? Sorry, but you can't start over. You've already set the boundaries up for what you expect in relationship. And that is...........no boundaries.
He is just a double crosser. Have nothing to do with him, just leave him for good and move on. He will never change, and I think you are wasting your time worrying about him and trying to find out what is common in his connection. The other two girls are acting as a go between and maybe pimping for him. He is definitely not the guy for you. You can get a nice clean guy in your life later. If there is sex involved, just stop having it with him. Get yourself tested to make sure that you have not contacted any STD, that is if you have indulged yourself with him. Just get him out of your life for good, he is just not a decent guy. Take care. God bless you. I would have killed him by now if it had happened to me.
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